
As humans, we are meaning-makers.
All day long, without even trying, we interpret the sounds, sights and sensations around us. A door closes. A text goes unanswered. Someone sighs in a meeting. We instinctively decide what it means.
And here’s the fascinating part: the meanings we create are often completely different from the meanings created by the person standing right next to us.
What one person hears as a door closing, another hears as someone leaving without saying goodbye.
Same sound. Different story.
The meanings we attach to events and objects shape our beliefs. They help to form them. They also reinforce them. We tend to look for evidence to support what we already believe — and we find it. Our brains are very good at that.
If I believe I’m not valued, I will notice every slight.
If I believe people can’t be trusted, I will collect proof.
If I believe I always get it wrong, I will find the mistakes.
But here’s where things get interesting.
When we pause and recognise that there may be another way to see something — when we allow ourselves to take a different perspective, to reframe a situation — something shifts. We move out of our problem-saturated space. Solutions become more visible. The grip of patterns like anxiety can loosen.
Not because we’re pretending everything is fine.
But because we’re widening the lens.
This week’s creative prompt is “tissue.”
When the word first came to me, I thought of coloured tissue paper — the kind you glue into bright collages. Then I thought about the tissues that make up our bodies — connective, protective, holding everything together. And then, of course, the humble box of tissues on my desk, ready for noses, faces and tears.
One word.
So many meanings.
The simple act of exploring how to depict tissue, use tissue, create something from tissue — it sparks possibility. It reminds me that meaning is flexible.
Now imagine applying that flexibility to your life.
Someone is rude to you. You could decide it means they don’t like you. That story might feel familiar. Maybe even convincing.
But what would someone else watching the encounter see?
Would they notice the person clutching their head with a headache?
Would they see the stress in their shoulders?
Could the sharpness in their tone be a sign of pain rather than dislike?
We rarely know the full story.
Reframing doesn’t mean excusing poor behaviour. It doesn’t mean abandoning boundaries. It simply means allowing for the possibility that our first interpretation isn’t the only one available.
And that small shift — from certainty to curiosity — can change everything.
Creativity isn’t only about art supplies and prompts. It’s also about how we interpret the world around us. When we loosen our grip on a single meaning, we create space. Space for compassion. Space for solutions. Space for calm.
So this week, play with “tissue” if you feel inclined. See what it evokes. Notice how many meanings it can hold.
And then gently ask yourself:
Where in my life might there be another meaning waiting to be discovered?
About the Author
Theresa is a Clinical Hypnotherapist and Strategic Psychotherapist based in Canberra, working with clients both in person and online through her practice, Navigating Calm. She helps people create lasting positive change by breaking free from unhelpful patterns and reconnecting with calm, clarity, and confidence.
If you’re ready to take the next step towards lasting change in your life, get in touch today to book an appointment.


