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Small Shifts, Big Change: Moving Towards a Calmer State of Mind
Part of creating change in your life begins with awareness — noticing what’s happening in your thoughts, feelings, and body, and then deciding whether that reaction is valid and useful. Sometimes our initial thoughts or responses don’t serve us very well. When that’s the case, the next step is to consider what would be more helpful instead.
Ask yourself: What state do I want to be in? What step do I want to be taking? What thought would I rather be having right now? Once you’ve identified where you’d like to be, the focus becomes how to gently move yourself in that direction.
There are many ways to shift your state, but one simple and effective approach is a self check-in. Take a moment to notice what’s happening for you physically and mentally. Then, start making small, deliberate adjustments that move you closer to how you’d like to feel.
For example, if you’re feeling stressed or overwhelmed and want to move toward a sense of calm neutrality, start with your body. Notice your shoulders — are they tense or lifted? Try wriggling them and letting them drop. Notice your breathing — is it shallow? Take a few slow, deep breaths. Maybe your posture is slumped; sit up a little taller. Picture what “neutral calm” might look and feel like for you, and allow your body to settle into that position. Each of these small shifts is a step away from tension and a step towards balance.
Another helpful strategy is to write your thoughts down. You might note what you don’t like about your current state and what draws you toward the state you’d prefer. I remember once writing that I felt like a failure but wanted to feel empowered — and simply writing those words helped me create some distance from the feeling. It gave me the space to reflect and realise that I hadn’t failed at all — I was just stuck in an unhelpful frame of mind.
You might choose to do a full body scan, noticing how each part of you feels, or just a quick all-over check-in. However you approach it, the goal is the same: small changes that lead to a big difference. These simple acts help you shift gently towards the path you want to be on — the one that leads you forward.
About the Author
Theresa is a Clinical Hypnotherapist and Strategic Psychotherapist based in Canberra, working with clients both in person and online through her practice, Navigating Calm. She helps people create lasting positive change by breaking free from unhelpful patterns and reconnecting with calm, clarity, and confidence.
If you’re ready to take the next step towards lasting change in your life, get in touch today to book an appointment.
How to Ease Stress and Anxiety by Noticing Life’s Little Delights
In our constant search for happiness – something social media often tells us we should be chasing – it’s easy to forget that a good life is made up of a full range of emotions. Happiness is beautiful, but it feels even richer when it follows sadness. Calm is nourishing, but we often appreciate it most after stress. Real life is a mix of highs, lows, in-betweens, and many pleasantly ordinary moments in between.
When you’re feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or worn down, that search for happiness can feel completely out of reach. Our minds tend to filter what we notice: when we tell ourselves we’re stressed, we find endless signs to confirm it. So how do we begin to turn this around?
One simple step is to start looking for microdoses of delight, wonder, or awe. It might be pausing to watch a bee collect nectar, noticing a dog stretching into the patch of sun on the carpet, or spotting the first buds appearing in the garden. Small, fleeting things — yet powerful reminders that joy is still threaded through the day.
If you set yourself a gentle goal to notice just one or two of these moments each day, you begin to balance out the negative messages of stress and overwhelm. You train your brain to see beyond the weight of what feels hard. Recording them – with a quick note, a photo, or even a mental bookmark – can give you a pause, a recharge, a moment of breathing space.
This doesn’t take away life’s difficulties, but it does loosen the grip of those heavy emotions. It reminds you that you’re not always stressed, and helps break the cycle of feeling stuck in those unhelpful patterns.
So, how will you look for your microdoses of delight today?
About the Author
Theresa is a Clinical Hypnotherapist and Strategic Psychotherapist based in Canberra, working with clients both in person and online through her practice, Navigating Calm. She helps people create lasting positive change by breaking free from unhelpful patterns and reconnecting with calm, clarity, and confidence. If you’re ready to take the next step towards lasting change in your life, get in touch today to book an appointment.
Lift Your Gaze: A Simple Strategy to Calm Anxiety and Interrupt Overwhelm
When anxiety strikes, it often feels like it takes over everything—your mind, your body, even your breath. It can be like falling into a well-rehearsed script that your body and brain know all too well. But what if you could interrupt that script with a simple, physical shift?
One surprisingly powerful way to do just that is this: lift your gaze above the horizon.
Yes, something as small as where you direct your eyes can help change how you feel in the moment. This simple movement is more than a mindfulness trick. It’s grounded in principles from Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), a therapeutic approach that explores how our thoughts, behaviours, and body language all interconnect.
Let me explain why it works—and how you can use it.
How Anxiety Becomes a Pattern
When we feel anxious or overwhelmed, it’s often because our mind has recognised a familiar trigger and set off a series of automatic responses. These might include shallow breathing, racing thoughts, tension in the chest or shoulders, and a visual focus that drops downward—towards the ground, our feet, or a blank stare inward.
Over time, this becomes a well-trodden neural pathway. Your brain learns that when X happens, we react with Y. You don’t have to think about it anymore—your system just goes there.
But here’s the empowering part: we can interrupt that pattern.
The Power of Physiology
NLP recognises that how we use our body shapes how we feel. The link between physiology and emotion isn’t one-way. It’s a feedback loop. That means if you change your posture, your breath, or even where your eyes are looking, you can send a different signal back to your brain—and that signal can help break the anxiety cycle.
Lifting your gaze is one of those “pattern interrupts.”
Think about the last time you were deep in anxious thought. Chances are your vision narrowed or dropped. Now imagine doing the opposite:
- Raise your eyes.
- Look up and out—ideally above the horizon.
- Take in a broader view of your surroundings.
This action cues your nervous system that you’re safe, aware, and not under immediate threat. It’s not just symbolic—it changes the actual feedback your brain receives.
What Happens When You Look Up?
In NLP, looking upwards is often associated with visual processing, which typically engages the part of the brain used for imagination and creativity. In contrast, looking down tends to lead us inward, often into the emotional (kinaesthetic) or critical (internal dialogue) states that feed overwhelm.
By changing your eye direction, you disrupt the emotional momentum. You step out of the trance of anxiety and into a more neutral—or even resourceful—state.
A Simple Practice to Try
You can use this technique anytime, anywhere. Here’s how:
- Pause – When you notice anxiety creeping in, or your thoughts racing, stop for a moment.
- Breathe – Take a slow breath in through your nose, and exhale fully.
- Lift Your Gaze – Gently raise your eyes above the horizon. Look at a tree, the sky, a point on the wall—something neutral or calming.
- Stay Present – Allow yourself to really see your surroundings. Let your awareness widen. Notice details without judgement.
- Notice the Shift – You may feel an immediate difference. The thoughts might slow. Your chest may feel less tight. There’s space again.
Why This Matters
Clients I work with often describe anxiety as something that “just happens” to them. But part of our work together is about recognising that we can shift our experience. Not by force or suppression, but by using tools like this one to interrupt old patterns.
Lifting your gaze is one small move in a bigger toolbox. It’s not about pretending everything is fine. It’s about giving your brain and body a new message—one that creates a circuit breaker for the spiral.
Ready to Change the Way You Relate to Anxiety?
This is just one of the many tools I share with clients who are learning to respond differently to anxiety and overwhelm. Hypnotherapy and strategic psychotherapy can help you not only manage symptoms, but unlearn the patterns that keep you stuck—so you can create new ones that support calm, confidence, and clarity.
If you’d like support interrupting your own anxious patterns and finding a better way forward, I offer a free 20-minute consultation. You can book online here.
How to Use Box Breathing to Calm Your Mind
How many times when you are feeling stressed do you hear someone say ‘just breathe’? If you are like me your automatic response might be ‘I AM breathing!!!’ However, different patterns of breathing can impact you in ways that aren’t always obvious at first! Box Breathing is a tool you can use anytime, anywhere, to lower your stress, connect with your calm, and break the patterns of overwhelm. It is portable, convenient and practical!
Why does breathing help us to calm our body and mind?
When we are stressed we tend to tense up, take shallow breaths, lift our shoulders, tense our muscles slightly, and start the unhelpful thought patterns that disconnect our logical brain from our emotional brain. This can activate the part of our brain that creates a fight or flight response. By slowing our breathing, focusing on deeper breaths, and counting at the same time, we can shift from that automatic pattern of tension and stress and connect with our parasympathetic nervous system. This means that we may reconnect with our logic, and give ourselves time to think of different strategies to help manage the situation. The very fact that we are counting creates a mini-meditation and a break from the whirling thoughts in our mind.
How does Box Breathing work?
Box Breathing is called that because a box shape has 4 sides. (This technique is also known as square breathing, 4-4-4 breathing and other names for that reason!)
The process is that you:
1. Slowly breathe out over 4 seconds
2. Wait for 4 seconds
3. Slowly take a deep breath over 4 seconds
4. Hold that breath for 4 seconds
5. Repeat the process 1 – 3 times
Additional tips
To build your practice of box breathing you might also do one, some or all of these steps:
- Look for a quiet space to sit uninterrupted
- Close your eyes
- Place a hand on your chest to feel the breath rise and fall
- Practice 5 minutes of box-breathing each morning before you start your day
Summary
Box breathing is a tool that can be used to calm yourself down when experiencing moments of stress, anger, frustration or anxiety. It is also a technique that you can practice to enhance moments of calm, building your ability to use it for the times when you might need it. And if you prefer to learn by watching – here is a video of me explaining the technique! Youtube
Blink VuMu – Creating Healthier Patterns
I wrote about the technique of interrupting overthinking using ‘Blink VuMu’ a while ago, and many of you have found it helpful. Since then I have realised that there are many more uses to this technique than just ‘overthinking’. This article explains the broader applications of this technique and some ways of incorporating it so that you create healthier patterns in your life.
The concept of Blink VuMu is that you blink to create a pattern interrupter in any of the automatic patterns you are running. This might be anxiety, it could be a strong feeling that overrides your logic, or it could be your critical inner voice telling you unhelpful things. Once you have interrupted the pattern, then you can ask yourself the important curious questions of whether the pattern you are running is valid, and if the answer is yes, whether it is useful.
The next step is to then ask yourself what is more useful, or the most useful pattern you could adopt instead. Another question that can be helpful to ask yourself is ‘What would this look like if I had already solved the problem?’
By asking yourself these questions you create new pathways and approaches that are more helpful, and are more connected to the reality of the world, rather than the stories we can create in our imagination and react to.
In a step by step format it looks like this:
Step 1) Blink wildly for 5 seconds (count back from 5-1)
Step 2) Get curious – How am I doing this?
Step 3) Ask yourself the following questions
Q1) Is this Valid? YES/NO
Q2) Is this Useful? YES/NO
Q3) If not, what would be a More Useful, or the Most Useful response I could offer right now? Or, if I had solved this problem, what would it look like?
The more you practice this approach, the easier it is to interrupt your thinking, check the validity of your feelings, and stop the inner critical voice from running the unhelpful patterns.
If you would like to explore this further, you may find this video explanation useful – Blink VuMu – a technique to create healthier patterns.
You may also like to book an appointment with me to learn how to apply this to your life and create a new path forwards.
Harnessing Hypnotherapy to Reduce Stress
In our fast-paced world, stress seems almost unavoidable. Juggling responsibilities, work demands, and personal commitments often leaves little time for us to breathe and reset. While some stress can be motivating, excessive stress takes a toll on both mind and body, leading to burnout, anxiety, and even chronic health issues. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, you might find relief in a surprising yet highly effective tool: hypnotherapy.
Hypnotherapy is a therapeutic approach that works on a deep, subconscious level to help clients relax, reframe their stressors, and develop healthy coping mechanisms. In this post, let’s explore how hypnotherapy can help you relieve stress and regain control.
Understanding Stress and Its Impact
Stress is your body’s response to perceived threats or demands. When you’re stressed, your brain signals a fight-or-flight response, leading to the release of hormones like adrenaline and cortisol. While helpful in short bursts, ongoing stress keeps your body in a state of heightened alert, causing physical symptoms such as muscle tension, headaches, digestive issues, and sleep disturbances. Mentally, stress can lead to feelings of overwhelm, anxiety, and eventually burnout.
Traditional stress management techniques—like exercise, meditation, and mindfulness—can help, but they often only scratch the surface. Hypnotherapy, on the other hand, works on a subconscious level, where deep-seated beliefs and automatic responses to stress are stored. By addressing these underlying factors, hypnotherapy offers a more holistic, lasting solution.
How Hypnotherapy Eases Stress
1. Deep Relaxation
During hypnotherapy, you’re guided into a deeply relaxed state, which itself can help reduce stress. This state, known as a trance, allows your body to release physical tension and feel at ease. In this calm state, your brain produces alpha and theta brainwaves, which are linked to relaxation, creativity, and even healing. This physical and mental relaxation is not just temporary; with repeated sessions, it helps “rewire” your brain’s stress response to react with calm instead of panic.
2. Rewiring Automatic Responses
Many people have automatic stress responses—they get anxious before a big presentation, feel tense in social settings, or worry incessantly about small tasks. These responses are usually based on subconscious beliefs and patterns that have been programmed over time. In a hypnotherapy session, we can uncover these triggers and reframe them, helping you respond more calmly. Through powerful visualisation and suggestion techniques, hypnotherapy can teach your subconscious mind to adopt healthier responses, reducing your stress reactions over time.
3. Building Resilience
Hypnotherapy doesn’t just address the symptoms of stress; it also helps you develop resilience. Resilience is the ability to handle life’s challenges without becoming overwhelmed. Using tools like guided visualisation, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), and positive reinforcement, hypnotherapy helps build mental and emotional resilience, giving you the strength to handle stressors without being derailed by them.
4. Managing Physical Symptoms
When stress manifests physically—as headaches, muscle tightness, or sleep disturbances—hypnotherapy can be a powerful tool to address these symptoms. Through body scanning and relaxation techniques, hypnotherapy helps reduce physical tension, relieve pain, and improve sleep quality. By reprogramming your subconscious response to stress, hypnotherapy can also help alleviate chronic symptoms that have been resistant to other treatments.
5. Creating Lasting Lifestyle Changes
During hypnotherapy, we can work together to identify any lifestyle habits that contribute to your stress, such as procrastination, lack of boundaries, or unhealthy coping mechanisms. Hypnotherapy can help shift these habits, replacing them with healthier choices and patterns that support a balanced life. This empowers you to make meaningful changes in your daily routine, reducing stress long-term.
What to Expect from a Hypnotherapy Session for Stress
In a hypnotherapy session, you’ll start by discussing the sources of your stress and identifying specific goals. Then, we guide you into a relaxed, focused state where we can access your subconscious mind to explore and reframe the automatic responses contributing to your stress. Each session builds upon the last, helping you gradually shift your perspective and responses, with effects that extend well beyond the session itself.
With time, many clients report feeling calmer and more in control, not just in obvious moments of stress but in everyday life.
Finding Calm in the Chaos
If stress is holding you back from living fully, hypnotherapy could be the solution to help you regain control, find calm, and handle life’s challenges with ease. It’s a natural, non-invasive way to rewire your responses, build resilience, and finally feel at ease.
For anyone looking to take a meaningful step towards less stress, I invite you to book a free 20-minute consultation. Together, we can explore how hypnotherapy might be a fit for you and start a journey towards a more balanced, fulfilling life. You deserve to feel calm and centred—let’s navigate that path together.
Feel free to reach out, or find more tips on managing stress on my Instagram and Facebook pages.
Breaking Free from Phobias: How Hypnotherapy and Psychotherapy Can Help
Phobias are more than just intense fears; they can feel all-encompassing, affecting daily life and holding you back from experiences others may take for granted. Whether it’s the fear of flying, escalators, animals, or something else entirely, phobias can cause significant distress. But did you know that beneath these specific fears often lies a broader pattern of anxiety? This pattern is key to understanding—and ultimately overcoming—phobias.
How Phobias Form
Phobias develop when the brain learns to associate a particular situation, object, or activity with overwhelming fear or anxiety. Often, this response is deeply rooted, shaped by past experiences, learned behaviours, or even external influences like media or others’ fears. Once the fear sets in, the brain essentially creates a neural pathway that keeps triggering the anxious response whenever the feared object or situation arises. This cycle can feel impossible to break on your own.
But there’s good news: your brain is capable of change. It can unlearn these patterns and replace them with healthier, more adaptive responses.
Rewiring the Brain with Hypnotherapy
Hypnotherapy is a powerful tool for addressing phobias because it taps into the subconscious mind, where these deep-rooted fears reside. When you’re in a state of hypnosis, your mind becomes more open to suggestion, allowing new, positive neural pathways to form.
This isn’t about forcing change or suppressing fear. Instead, hypnotherapy gently encourages your brain to adopt new patterns—helping you build resilience and reduce the anxiety that fuels your phobia. By guiding your brain to reframe its responses, hypnotherapy creates space for you to face formerly terrifying situations with a sense of calm and control.
Combining Hypnotherapy with Psychotherapy
Psychotherapy works alongside hypnotherapy by helping you understand the broader anxiety that often accompanies phobias. Together, these therapies offer a holistic approach to not only address the specific phobia but also manage the anxiety that’s often at its core.
By exploring the root causes and working through anxious thought patterns, psychotherapy supports long-lasting change. Combined with hypnotherapy, this approach helps you regain control, empowering you to navigate life without fear dictating your actions.
Time to Reclaim Your Freedom
Living with a phobia can feel isolating and limiting, but you don’t have to face it alone. Through hypnotherapy and psychotherapy, I help clients break free from the grip of fear—whether it’s fear of flying, escalators, animals, or anything else that’s been holding them back. Together, we can rewire your brain, reduce your anxiety, and help you face life with newfound confidence.
If you’re ready to take the next step, I invite you to book an appointment. Let’s work together to create lasting change so you can move forward, free from fear.
How Hypnotherapy Can Support Cancer Patients: A Gentle Approach to Managing Pain and Anxiety
A recent study has brought to light the significant benefits that hypnotherapy can offer to patients undergoing cancer treatment, along with the pressing need for greater awareness among medical professionals about these advantages. In my own practice, I’ve had the privilege of working with several clients who were diagnosed with cancer and undergoing treatment during our sessions. Through clinical hypnotherapy, I’ve been able to assist them in managing their anxiety, taking control of their pain, improving their sleep, and alleviating their depression.
A cancer diagnosis can be one of the most stressful moments in a person’s life. If you’ve had previous experiences with anxiety, depression, trauma, or stress, the weight of the diagnosis can feel overwhelming. In our sessions, I focus on helping clients establish new neural pathways, equipping them with tools to better manage their experiences, and ultimately, regain a sense of control. This process can become a powerful part of your recovery, potentially transforming your outlook on life as you move forward.
How we experience pain is often tied to the emotions we attach to it. Individuals who don’t have an emotional response to pain frequently report feeling less pain compared to those who do. This is where hypnosis in a clinical setting can be incredibly effective – by helping you change your emotional response, you can regain control over how you experience the physical symptoms and discomfort from your medical treatment. I’ve seen remarkable results in this area, with one client even leaving me a voice message the day after major surgery, calling me a miracle worker. The work we had done on managing her pain had been so effective that she experienced no distress, even when nurses were struggling to find veins for catheters.
Having a gentle, non-invasive treatment option to address the emotional and physical impacts of diagnosis and treatment can be immensely beneficial to many patients. If you or a loved one are facing this challenge, I encourage you to reach out. Together, we can explore how I can support you in managing this journey.
Rediscover Your Calm: A Strategic Approach to Overcoming Anxiety and Depression
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or burnt out? These are common feelings that often lead people to seek help from mental health professionals. But when you dig deeper, anxiety and depression are often at the root of these experiences, no matter what label you give them. Understanding how these challenges manifest and how a strategic approach can effectively address them is crucial in choosing the right therapy for you.
Contrary to popular belief, anxiety and depression aren’t hereditary or fixed conditions. They’re learned processes—patterns of thinking and reacting that we pick up as we grow, often from those around us. If you were raised by an anxious parent, you might have unconsciously adopted their anxious responses. Over time, these responses can become so ingrained that they feel like the only way to react to certain situations. But here’s the good news: just as we learned these patterns, we can unlearn them and create new, healthier ways to respond.
Strategic Hypnotherapy works on the premise that learning a new response is similar to learning any new skill. Think about how you learned to ride a bike—you didn’t just hop on and start cycling perfectly. You learned each step, practiced them, and eventually, it became second nature. In the same way, you can learn the steps to respond differently to anxiety or depression. Hypnotherapy helps by reinforcing these new, more helpful responses in your subconscious, making them feel natural and automatic.
Anxiety is often rooted in future-based thinking. If you struggle with anxiety, you might find yourself fixated on worst-case scenarios, constantly worrying about things that haven’t happened and may never occur. With a strategic approach, we help you learn to distinguish between thoughts that are useful and grounded in the present and those that are simply unhelpful fears about the future. This process empowers you to live more fully in the moment, with a greater sense of control and calm.
Depression, on the other hand, tends to be tied to past-based thinking. If you’re dealing with depression, you might spend a lot of time replaying past events, focusing on what went wrong and how you’ve been affected. Unfortunately, we can’t change the past, but we can change how we relate to it. A strategic approach helps you learn how to let go of the past and move forward, building a future that reflects the life you truly want to live.
If you’re ready to break free from the cycles of anxiety and depression and start creating the life you desire, I invite you to take the first step. Book a free 20-minute consultation today, and let’s explore how Strategic Hypnotherapy can support you in this journey. Your path to calm, balance, and a brighter future begins here.
Healing Trauma: How Hypnotherapy and Psychotherapy Can Help You Overcome PTSD
How is it that some people experience a traumatic event and are able to move on from it while others can’t? If you have experienced Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), you might feel that it has happened to you, that you are unable to control it, and unable to recover from it. It can seem unfair that another person who experienced the same or similar event didn’t develop PTSD, and that can make it feel worse. A strategic approach to psychotherapy tells us that it isn’t a matter of fairness or luck, but it is more likely a matter of past experiences and learnings impacting how you experience and process a traumatic event.
As we grow from young children into teens and then into adults, we are constantly learning from the people around us, the experiences we have, and the media we are exposed to. We don’t all learn the same habits or develop the same responses as we grow, and these can result in what we call ‘experiential gaps’. When these gaps in knowledge and development are addressed, and new ways of processing our thoughts, feelings, and emotions are developed, our ability to handle trauma and let go of the harm that has been done to us becomes easier.
In my practice, I use a solution-focused approach to help you overcome trauma and build new ways of responding and reacting. This means identifying and filling in those gaps so that you can develop a solution that gives you back control over your responses and reactions. This allows you to create a future without flashbacks, strong emotional responses to triggers, and embrace a new sense of calm.
One of the techniques I employ is hypnotherapy, which can be particularly effective for PTSD. Hypnotherapy allows us to access the subconscious mind, where deep-seated memories and responses reside. By working through these in a safe and controlled environment, we can reframe negative experiences and create new, positive pathways. This helps in reducing the power that traumatic memories hold over you, making it possible to move forward with greater ease and resilience.
